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When was the last time you asked that question? Was it as a student? As a small child? After you had already entered your career?

If you still don't know what you want to be when you grow up, maybe it's time to try something new and different. After all, the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

We have a unique methodology that really works and will give you a concrete answer to the ageless question, "what do I want to be when I grow up." It all starts here...

Think back to a day when you were totally energized...a day when the time flew by. Can you remember a day like that, when you looked at a clock at the end of the day and said, “Wow, where did the time go?”

You have probably experienced a day (or maybe just a moment) like that at home, at work or maybe doing an activity you love to do. 

Some of you may have to think way back into childhood to find such a day. (Don't worry. Even if you can't remember a day or moment like that, we can still help you.) If you can remember an energizing day, or even a moment, imagine every day being just like that.

I know that sounds impossible or maybe farfetched, but that is exactly what we do. No, we’re not talking about shaping your life around a skill set you’ve picked up along the way, even though that’s what traditional thinking would recommend.  The problem with the skills-based approach is this simple fact…


A fun little game we play with our customers that will give you a glimpse into our concepts at Stuck in a Rut.

 

You get into a job you're skilled in, even though you might not like doing it. If you're already in the work force, the skills based approach tends to put you back into something similar to what you've already done. For those of you who are already in your career, that approach means bad news. 86% of you don't love what you do. (If you are a part of the lucky 14% who love what they do, read on. You're about to learn why understanding why you love what you do is important.)

No, we’re not talking about a “do what you love and the money will follow” approach, although that has a kernel of truth. That approach severely limits your possibilities.  For example, if your passions are golf and fishing, there are only so many ways to shape your life around golf or fishing. 

There is a deeper, much more fundamental truth behind our techniques that will provide a lifetime of learning. Once you understand and act on that fundamental truth, you’ll know exactly how to live that energizing life you just imagined. 

Here is the real truth...

There is a fundamental truth behind what you're passionate about that most people consistently miss. When you’re doing an activity that you love, it’s not the activity itself that is energizing to you.  What actually is energizing to you is what is going on in your mind when you’re doing that activity.  This is a crucial concept…so important to understand that you should go back and read it again. Application of this simple concept is what makes our techniques so effective and long-lasting.

Here is how this applies to you. When you're doing that activity that is energizing to you, you are using a particular way of thinking and acting every time. You probably don't know what that way of thinking is because it is largely unconscious and intuitive. You do it at the speed of light. You’re the best at this particular way of thinking, and it’s so energizing to you that you can’t help but be drawn back into it. 

You Can't Get Enough of this Particular Way of Thinking and Acting

Believe it or not, every activity you love is tied together through this particular way of thinking and acting, no matter how diverse you think those activities are. They all originate from the same step-by-step process.

This core way of thinking is what we call your Given Talent.  Once again, it’s not the activity itself that’s energizing to you.  To put it very simply, using your Given Talent IS what energizes you…every single time. 

You might not think you have a Given Talent...but you do!

It’s been with you ever since you were a young child and you probably aren't even aware of it.  Once we bring your Given Talent to light, you’ll see yourself using it literally everywhere and every day...at work, at home, in the way you choose which sports to play and hobbies to do, at the office, on the golf course, on vacation, even when you're just playing around...virtually everywhere.

When you use your Given Talent, you have endless energy!

You'll be struck by how natural your Given Talent is for you. In fact, it comes so naturally you might falsely believe everybody thinks the same way you do. Nothing could be further from the truth.

This core way of thinking, your Given Talent, is exactly what defines your individuality. It's the real you...your own unique brand. It's what, without even knowing, you've mastered over the years.


Understanding your Given Talent gives you the best of the “skill set” and “do what you love” worlds without the drawbacks.  You'll know exactly what you do expertly because it’s what your mind does naturally.  And because you'll know why you love what you love, you’ll be able to find more and more activities that use your Given Talent, whether they are for profit or just for fun.  Finding your Given Talent opens up a whole new world of possibility. 

Here's how we do it

The Clarifier® begins with The Clarifier interview, which is our trade secret process that uncovers your Given Talent in two hours or less. It’s not your typical linear style interview. It’s a proven process that was boiled down from ten years of experimentation. In a one-on-one session we'll ask you a series of simple and seemingly disconnected questions around energizing events in your past where time flew by.

You'll become visibly energized as you relive those incredible days. As we listen to the nature of your responses, we'll adjust our questions to drill more and more into the inner workings of how your mind works.

By the end of the interview, your Given Talent will reveal itself much like the sun's rays emerging through a dense fog. Instantly you'll flash back through your life and remember times in the past where you used your Given Talent.

Our clients often describe this phenomenon as "connecting the dots." Many find it so exciting and clarifying that they have a difficult time sleeping the evening of the interview (much like a kid on Christmas Eve who can't wait to open their presents). In fact, many compare this experience to a "brain massage" because it's so relaxing and exhilarating.

Once your Given Talent is brought to light, it'll become obvious what activities in your life use your Given Talent and which ones don't. It'll become obvious why certain things are so difficult, and why others are so effortless. You'll intuitively know the direction you should be heading to make your life more energizing, regardless of your career situation. The clarity you will glean from this experience alone is amazing!

Even though the concept of a Given Talent is fairly simple, uncovering it is actually very difficult.  It takes months to train our Career and Life Integrators to facilitate The Clarifier interview.  One of the reasons why it’s difficult is because your Given Talent is so much a part of your very being, that it is almost impossible to see yourself.  Much like your nose, it’s constantly in your view. Because it's always been there, you've learned to filter it out of your conscious thought.

Your Given Talent can also be hard to see because it is often covered by layers of Should Bees.  What are Should Bees?  Everybody has Should Bees and some of them are necessary. Should Bees are filters imposed on your life as the result of other people’s expectations. They are not really you. Instead they are imposed on you by somebody else. Should Bees come from a variety of sources, typically from the people closest to you.  Whether they come from your friends, family, spouse or whoever, an abundance of Should Bees boxes you in. They limit your ability to pursue the life meant for you.

Believing your Should Bees is a Guaranteed Recipe for Discontent

The Clarifier® pushes aside these Should Bees and isolates your Given Talent.  This all happens as you are having the time of your life reliving your life's most energizing moments.

At the end of The Clarifier, what emerges is your particular step-by-step core way of thinking (your Given Talent). You'll see yourself using this particular thought process each and every time you are doing something energizing to you. Knowing that is the key to leading an energizing life. Your Given Talent is unique to you and only you. It's not one of those canned descriptions that puts you in a predefined box also describing millions of other people.

Don’t be deceived. Even though it takes two hours or less to uncover your Given Talent, your newfound discovery will serve you for a lifetime.

We often get asked if The Clarifier is anything like Myers-Briggs, Kolbe, CPI, Enneagram, MAPP or anything else. The answer is a resounding “NO!!” And it’s not a form of role-playing either. Our techniques are unlike any other.  It is a process that is owned and licensed only by us.

The Clarifier can be done either in person or by phone.  It works just as well either way.

The only requirement is for you to speak English (some of our staff speaks a bit of German, but just enough to order a beer and find a bathroom.)  To see more details on how The Clarifier Interview works, click here.

It's difficult to explain the authenticity, validation and purpose most people feel when they go through The Clarifier. By the end of The Clarifier (and for days and weeks afterwards) your mind will buzz as you see how important your Given Talent is to you. For the rest of your life, you'll know exactly why you do what you do.

A real world client example of a Stuck in a Rut client named Jill.

You'll see how The Clarifier brings an incredible sense of clarity as you connect the dots everywhere in your life. That's why we call it The Clarifier, because that's exactly what it does. 

Click here for real life stories of clients who have gone through The Clarifier and how it changed their lives.

Here is a summary of what you'll get with The Clarifier...

  • The Clarifier Interview guaranteed to uncover your Given Talent in two hours or less.
  • Your personal MyGivenTalent web page, complete with five lessons including the detailed description of your Given Talent, plus lots of fun and informative goodies dedicated to shaping your life around your Given Talent.
  • One follow-up session with our super-qualified staff to make sure you understand and embrace your Given Talent.
  • A $40 discount good toward your purchase of the Simply Irresistible Resume Package.
  • Access to our premium products designed specifically for students, mid-career people or those in retirement. These products are only available to those who have experienced The Clarifier®.


Interested but want to try it out first? Take our FREE 15 min Test Drive to see how it works. You'll love it!

This same product used to sell for $459. We've reduced the price to make it available to as many people as possible. We have witnessed the positive effects it has on people lives, and we want to make a difference in your life, too!

We're so sure we'll be able to identify your Given Talent, that we have a simple guarantee. If we fail to uncover your Given Talent in a two hour session, we’ll give you another session for free.  If we are still unable to uncover your Given Talent after the second session, we’ll happily refund 100% of your purchase price of The Clarifier.

If you're ready to learn your Given Talent and open a world of opportunities, there has never been a better time to sign up for The Clarifier. Just click the "BUY NOW" button. It will take you to PayPal, the most secure shopping cart in the world. (If you don't have an existing PayPal account, just click "Continue" at the bottom left corner and you'll be able to process your transaction there.)

Once you're paid up, one of our representatives will contact you to begin The Clarifier process and set up your Personal MyGivenTalent webpage. (If you'd rather, you can call us at (503) 699-6640 and we'd be happy to help you sign up as well.)

We also offer payment plans to our customers, just call us so we can set up a plan that works for you.

Now the ball is in your court

We look forward to the look on your face when the discovery of your Given Talent changes forever the way you see yourself!

Have some fun just being you!!

Dave

p.s.  Once you understand and embrace the power of your Given Talent, you’ll know exactly what brings you energy.  Knowing and understanding that alone is HUGE.  You’ll see how it translates through to not only your career, but also relationships, education, retirement, hobbies, business aspirations, etc. 

For those who want more, we also offer online packages and coaching programs that are available only to those who have gone through The Clarifier.  They are not available to the general public.  They are specifically designed to provide more intensive assistance to those in mid-career, students, or retirees wanting to shape their life even more around their Given Talent.  (You are of course under no obligation to buy them.)  We make these resources available because we know how energized you’ll be when you live your life around your Given Talent, and we want to do everything we can to get you there as quickly as your heart desires. To learn more about our Career Integration Packages click here.

p.p.s. For a limited time, if you are a student currently enrolled in high school or college, when you buy The Clarifier, you’ll get for free the Student Online Course, which will take you step by step how to identify the career and major that is perfect for you.  Why are we doing this?  Because we’re fed up how many students spend tons of time and effort on their education, only to still wonder what they are going to be when they grow up after they graduate.  We want to do our part to get students on the right track from Day One.

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Here is what our customers are telling us.....

Merrill W. – Harvard Business School Grad

Stuck in a Rut's unique process for divining given talent and then using that knowledge to change a life is worth ten times the price.


Charles F. – Administrative Assistant done with Pretending

As I am fast becoming a lousy Great Pretender, I am grateful to have found you and The Clarifier process. I wish I could remember more about the experience because I doubt I will ever have another one like it.


Rory L. - Customer Service Representative looking for R&D work

I always kind of knew how I think, but I've never been able to describe it to anybody because it seems so complex. It was mind boggling how quickly you guys were able to drill down and tell me exactly how I think in more detail than I ever thought possible. It was amazing! You nailed it!


Nancy C - Life Coach happy in her job

You don't know how much this is helping me. It gives me a new sense of myself. Your process lets me find out who I am in a fun setting and be totally OK with it.


Romano L. - Tech Specialist looking to get out

I have been working with Dave from the Stuck in a Rut and it has been great. You will find a friend; who really wants to help and takes joy in helping. His help and advices would probably cost hundreds or thousands in the open market.


Brian R. - College student majoring in science

I shared my Given Talent with my parents and family and they all thought it was dead on.


Bianka S. – Student who chose nursing as a career

It seems as though my talent is going to be playing itself out this summer. I am going to be taking the assistant nursing class and getting certified so I can do that this summer in a rehab center! I am so excited.


Mike M. - Insurance Consultant

BINGO!!! You nailed it right on the head! That’s is really where my strengths and talents meet.


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